I am soo upset. I have been down in my finances latley and I?
resorted to getting money off my parents. ( I still don't think this teaches me any lesson) any way, on the subject, my mum thinks I should buy a house/unit with help from them. Never knew what my plans of future were going to be when I was a kid but never thought I would buy a house on my own. My mum says that it is better to buy just in my name, that way I won't get screwed over if a relationship goes sour. I have been in two before and have left for certain reasons. I feel very unhappy about this decision and I feel controlled, but I know she just wants the best for me. I have committment problems. She and I have been close but now I think she is destroying my self esteem by looking after me so much, and I thought the only way to learn is to learn from mistakes, and she is not letting me make those major mistakes. The thought of buying a house with someone sounds easier, but is it really a problem. Please help me...i am so upset. I can't commit to work properly let alone a house!!
Mom is just being Mom. My parents played that crap hand on me too they actually tried to get me into an RV of all things. Yea I fell apart stumbled badly but recovered well out on my own now making more money than they ever dreamed I could and now have a NEW home in a nice area and all of it on my own.
Let mumsie help out and IT IS better to have it in your name alone. That way if a relationship goes sour you still have the house.
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