How do you tell people in the Mormon church that we would consider our options?
So we had a gentlemen very well Mormon church to come to our home and offer to teach a little about their religion. We agree, knowing very little about any religion we realized that could be heard out and possibly explore their way. So we went to church with them on Sunday and are planning on coming to our house on Saturday to teach a little more, and then I think we are waiting to go to church on Sunday. There were some very nice people invite us to dinner at his home this week. I would have no problems going to his house and was a very nice gesture, but if we choose not to join his church (which looks quite likely) and explore other paths, what we say? Not to be rude and simply not presented to the church and ignore the invitation for dinner.
If you tell them they are exploring other options or if they are firm in telling them they are no longer interested, you will experience what is called "Love Bombing" ... missionaries and mission (leader and other members to be "assigned" to you, ie false friends) that, for all intents and purposes, harass. They will call you, come without notice and without invitation (after all what they really believe they have the "right" to do what it takes to get baptized and on), comes in to or out home-goodies baked in your door, get their children to make friends with their children in school, drop time "just to say hello" to continue to invite to church, social gatherings, which is necessary for you in The missionaries are young, naive about life and choices - because they are not given any - however, are highly trained, as seller, to get you in at any cost. Constantly being asked to "pray about it," the Book of Mormon, feelings you may or may not ... careful with the feelings they want that experience (within the burning, for example) ... everything has been proven that the power of suggestion, especially within a group of people who can be convinced that these feelings and they will tell you which is a kind of "witness" that his church is true. Because you is your new contacts, to work hard on you. The missionaries go so far as to offer to wash the car, mowing the lawn, what they can do to show how much they mean for them. There were countless times when I was outside washing the car or do yard work and offered to take over so let them. 1. they were bored I do not want to go Contracting (knocking on doors) 2. I always fed them a good meal, but made clear he could do nothing to revive me and were well with that he had little interest in doing busy work. Many missionaries told me that he hated acting like contacts new best friend. Of course, as soon as the person was baptized, was the work of the members to take more, but those people are busy doing their own work held by the church, have little interest in you and you feel as if a plague cuz I just can not find the time to stay active, as are running on your hamster own wheel. Is well be "rude" ... you have no obligation to appear for dinner or church. They never, never take your feelings into account and that will be shown, unannounced at the most inappropriate (they are told to appear after 8 pm to 10 pm - do you want to open the door that night and why not at home with their own families?) SI to join, and if he stays active, ready to give all his spare time for them. He guilted to do so. Also, are you ready to give up 10% gross (to start) of your income? He adds that for a year and see how much is the "donation" to keep a billion downtown dollars Utah up among its other investments that you are not allowed to know. If you stay active, you are asked to donate to the fast offerings and other donations. It's All About the Benjamins with them. But they will tell you that the Lord wants his money to support his "kingdom" going. Ask yourself: What does a god with the money? If you join some day can go to a temple where they used the costumes strangers and make such a promise and swear to "give of their time, talent and everything you need (ie: money) to the Church of Jesus Christ of Saints "and not God, but to a society of good faith - SUD, Inc. Not to mention the underwear ridiculous that you have to use the rest of their lives. If an organization can get to bring some "protection" of underwear 24 / 7, then they can get you to do anything - it's all a complete mind f ** k They will tell you can be a "forever family" but they say at once that if you become a "forever family" family members that have not joined to be in heaven alone or lower "than you? Depression that develops over time is entirely driven by guilt - by them saying they are not doing enough, that is not enough. Not owe them any courtesy ... because it was never extended to you. Do not call, do not respond to door and keep their distance, since any perceived weakness on their part is an open invitation to them.
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